For a long time, I carried around this quiet belief that my story was basically done — that the important decisions had already been made somewhere in my twenties or thirties, and everything after that was just living out the plot. Then, on some completely ordinary day, I realized that wasn't true at all. Nobody had actually finished writing it. I had just stopped picking up the pen. There's a strange belief we settle into as we get older — that by a certain point, who we are

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I used to think I would only find peace once my life was in order, my kids were grown, and my worries had faded away. Sometimes, it seemed like I had everything together. But inside...